“Tougher Than the Rest”
Posted by purplemary54 on February 13, 2017
My adoration for Shawn Colvin knows no bounds. As a songwriter, she pens intensely, deeply, personal songs that are somehow universal. As a performer, she can take other artists’ songs and turn them into her own intensely, deeply, personal experiences. It’s a gift that as a music fan I do not take lightly.
In 1994, Colvin released Cover Girl, a collection of songs she loved by artists she loved; it is to this day one of my favorite albums. In 2015, Colvin decided it was time to collect a few more covers and released Uncovered. I finally got a copy for myself and although I don’t think it’s quite as passionately felt as Cover Girl, I think it shows her gift of turning covers into her own quite nicely.
Take “Tougher Than the Rest” for example. This song by Bruce Springsteen originally appeared on his Tunnel of Love from 1987, an album that is full of some of his most intensely, deeply, personal songs (it’s his divorce album, presciently written and released before his divorce from Julianne Phillips). Colvin switches a few pronouns, and presto, it’s her song not Springsteen’s.
If you know anything about Colvin’s history, you know how utterly heartbreakingly poignant this version is. She imprints herself all over the romantic yearning for a real relationship. She’s had a rocky romantic life, due in part to her struggle with mental illness. When she sings the title refrain, “honey I’m tougher than the rest”, you know it’s true. The last verse really gets to me. She delivers it so quietly, so matter-of-factly: “Well it ain’t no secret, I’ve been around a time or two. I don’t know baby, maybe you’ve been around, too. But there’s one more dance. All you gotta do is say yes. If you’re lookin’ for love, honey I’m tougher than the rest.” Her eyes show all the hope and fear those words encompass. Just one dance, just one chance to prove she’s the one for him. I like to think she did, but of course, that’s where the song ends. There’s room for both love and heartbreak. How the story turns out is up to the listener.